Dating a Younger Man
Normally a man will date a woman his age or a little younger. There are exceptions, known as “Manthers,” elderly men dating women young enough to be their daughter. Usually it is the man who is the elder in a relationship, but nowadays a woman dating a younger man is commonplace.
These relationships are generally accepted by society as reflected by the popular television series, “Cougar Town.” An “Urban Cougar” is the older woman dating a younger man. If you look at Hollywood stars like Halle Berry and Demi Moore, who both are dating men considerably younger than themselves, you realize exactly how widely accepted these new relationships are. An older woman dating a younger man is no longer a scarlet letter on her, but more a sign of prestige and vitality. Women are aging more gracefully these days and they find dating a younger man more to their liking. Here are some pointers on dating a younger man.
You can expect life in the fast (or at least faster) lane. The best thing about dating a younger man is that he still has a life to live and he doesn’t want to waste time. His youthful energy and spontaneity make him titillating prospect. You need to be ready to go at the drop of a hat with a willingness to try new, exciting things.
Appreciate him for what he is. Dating a younger man means accepting that he is probably less mature and experienced than you are. His emotional stability is not advanced. Dating a younger man may not lead to marriage or a committed relationship for the long haul. Avoid disappointment by keeping your expectations low and your acceptance high.
When dating a younger man leave don’t exercise your maternal instincts. He is your boyfriend not your child so he doesn’t need coddling or reprimanding. Be careful of young men who will take advantage of an older woman financially. When dating a younger man he should be willing to foot the bill as any gentleman would.
Dating a younger man can be thrilling, and downright hot. You may rediscover your younger self. If you enter a relationship with a younger man with open eyes and no apprehension you may be in for the ride of your life.
