Is He for Real or Are You Being Played?
He seems to be perfect, but you have been burned before so you can’t help but ask yourself, “Is he for real or are you being played?” It would be a total bummer if he was just leading you on for a good time when you’re already making plans for the future. As a woman who is falling hard and fast, how are you to know if a guy is for real or just playing you?
2 Indicators that will tell you if He’s For Real or Playing You
Indicator #1 -You’re perfect for him at first sight.
Nobody is perfect so if he is telling you that you are perfect from day one; something is definitely not right with the fruit punch. Every woman on the planet wants to believe that she is perfect just the way she is, but seriously, you have to know better. You’re awesome, but still striving to be perfect.
Any man who believes you’re perfect now will probably not think you are perfect later on down the road because there is no such thing as perfection. Then your faults may come back to haunt you if he decides to use them as the excuse to end your relationship.
On the other hand, if he acknowledges his own faults and says that he wants to take the time to get to know you better, then this guy has his head on his shoulder. There should be no words about perfection for quite a while. A man who is for real is one who recognizes your faults but still wants to be around you anyway. A guy who pretends you have no faults is a liar.
Indicator #2 – Two Dates and He Has the Ring.
Do you believe in love at first sight? It depends on who you ask? It could happen, but it rarely does. This guy cannot stop giving you compliments. It seems that every move you make is another reason for him to profess his admiration of you. He is definitely one of those guys who will have you wondering if he’s for real or are you being played.
Of course this is the same guy who starts to talk about happily ever after and showing you a ring on the third date is probably up to no good. Either he thinks you’re rich or he needs a green card. Neither of those will make the foundation for a lasting, happy marriage.
If it really is love at first sight, you will both feel it, and you more than likely won’t have any doubts. If he truly loves you, he’ll understand that you want to spend more time with him before you actually start wearing that ring.
At the end of the day, you need to be honest and listen to your gut instinct about men. If you do, you can easily tell if he is for real or if you’re being played.
