What Men Want: Stop Playing Hard to Get
What Men Want is for women to stop playing hard to get. It really is that simple. While a few men are excited by chasing after something or someone, the majority of them are not.
Most of the ones who enjoy the chase are typically the immature ones who are not really ready to settle down and are just looking for a good time. For these men, a little game is all they want.
Men who are more mature with more experience seriously do not have the time to play games. They want to make the most of their lives, and they want to share all of that with someone special.
Men with busy careers and active lives have very little patience and tolerance for women who play hard to get. Generally after work, they are too tired to play games meant for children. When they do have free time, they would rather engage in hobbies or spend quality times with friends.
Other men are even more turned off by these women and want them to know what men want – that women stop playing hard to get. Some of them even swear that as soon as a woman gives them the sign that she is too busy or too in demand, then they are off to find someone who isn’t too busy for a relationship. To these men, life is too short, and there are too many women on the planet for them to waste their time chasing what could be unattainable.
Men of course are drawn to women who know what they want, and a woman who is playing hard to get appears to be conflicted, as if she is unsure or can’t make up her mind. By playing hard to get, a woman comes across as saying, “Gee, I do not know what I want. I guess I will drop a pole out and see what bites.” She lacks confidence, and the majority of men find this trait most unappealing.
Guys want ladies who are independent and self-assured. They are more excited about a woman who leaves no doubt that she is interested. She will not hesitate to make suggestions about possible opportunities for get-togethers, and when she gives you her number, she actually takes your phone call.
Playing hard to get is a game, and games are for boys. What men want is for women to stop playing hard to get.
