How Do You Snag A Great Guy?
Everyone wants to date that amazing, fascinating person. Unfortunately, sometimes it seems like date after date winds up being with duds and dead ends.
How do you snag a great guy, who’s worth your time and effort?
Cindy was 26 when she decided to get back into the dating game. She had just ended a long term relationship and really wanted to make sure that she got the right person this time around.
That was where the trouble started however. Cindy felt like she was afloat in a sea of guys who were too similar to tell who was going to be super and who was just jonnie-average.
This problem is especially common with online dating. A picture and paragraph are nice, but even the most incredible compatibility test can only go so far in telling someone like Cindy if her potential date is a winner or a dud.
Add this to the fact that all the amazing men seem to be taken and the dating world can look pretty bleak. So how do you snag a great guy?
1. Be a great girl. What traits are you looking for in a man? You need to cultivate those in your own life.
They say opposites attract but the truth is that most commonly, people are attracted to mates who are similar to them in meaningful ways.
If you want a man who is emotionally reliable, faithful, and fun, first work build those traits in yourself.
2. The test questions. Don’t be afraid to directly inquire about things that are important to you.
If you value a man who has a job and doesn’t live in his mom’s basement, ask him politely but honestly where he lives or what he does for a career.
If it’s vital to you that your sweetie share your passion for old sic-fi movies or salsa dancing ask about those things too.
Don’t waste time on a second date if he hates everything you’re into. That just leads to problems later.
3. If at first you don’t succeed… Be patient. This is the hardest part about getting a really great guy.
You have to kiss some frogs to find your prince. That’s one reason it’s best not to narrow yourself to just one dating partner until you feel like you’re prince charming has arrived!
So how do you snag a great guy? First make sure you have all your ducks in a row.
It’s easier to tell if a guy is compatible with you when you know what direction you’re own life is headed. Ask candidly about the things that are important to you. Most importantly, don’t give up.
It may take some time, but you will definitely find your beloved prince!
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